You can be incredibly rich, sexy and successful, and still you will refuse a man who "is not ready for something serious." Why? Because you are already beautiful, successful, kind, and a man who is READY for something serious - one who is worthy of you - would be afraid to miss you. If he says he is not ready, it's time for you to stop wasting your time on him. He will never be ready. And that's why:
1. He has not finished his past relationship.
His past relationship is over, but he is still waiting for something. Maybe it was just the wrong time, maybe they either converged or diverged, but he probably still has feelings for the former. Whatever the case, he himself must solve it. If he is not ready for this, then he will choose the former at any opportunity, and not you.
2. Maybe it's just his excuse to stay bachelor.
This is a classic phrase of cowardly guys (not men) to get away from a serious conversation, when he does not want to hurt your feelings or piss you off, but still wants to be able to "stir up" with others.
3. You are not interested in him.
“I am not ready,” in most cases, a way for a weak man to say that you did not hook him. "It's not about you, but about me." And he is right, this is his problem and his loss, because you are too good for a guy who does not see everything that you can give him.
4. He is a fool.
Some guys are just blind. They do not see what is in front of them until you lose interest and move on. Fool can come back and try to conquer you. “I screwed up. Now I am ready. " While some may actually become smarter, this does not happen to most.
5. You think he just needs time. But it is not.
You think that if you just wait for him to be ready, he will appreciate your sacrifice, but ... The longer you stay with the wrong guy, the less time you spend on finding the right one. Wake up baby!
6. He is afraid of you.
He may be so below your level that he genuinely fears you, but this is what distinguishes men from boys. Men are not so easy to scare. A man wants a partner, not a doll. The boy knows that you do not need him, that scares him.
7. He is a deeply insecure person.
Another difference between boys and men is confidence.In men, it is, the boys are missing. If you know what you are worth and radiate confidence, your presence alone will remind the boy, who says that “he is not ready”, that you can find someone better. This will remind him of his weaknesses and make him act like a jerk.
8. You are one of many, and should be the only one.
If he says he is not ready, he probably still chooses between you and someone else. Do you really want to be one of? If he does not understand that you are the only one, this is his loss.
9. He is a manipulator.
Maybe he just wants to see how strong your feelings are for him, what you will let him go, how long you will endure it. If you notice manipulative trends, pay attention to this.
10. He thinks he can find better.
He does not know how to be content with what he has, he does not know how to appreciate what he has. And no matter how hard you try, you will always not be good enough for him.