The Internet is full of articles about people who have become victims of relationships with toxic partners. But what if you start to notice toxic behavior in yourself? They say you need to save relationships in spite of everything, but what if it is much better for everyone to disperse, even if you love each other?
Sometimes to truly love is to leave or move away from a person in order to deal with your toxic behavior, which manifested itself in a relationship.
Awareness of their own toxicity is a very rare trait. Most prefer to make a sacrifice of themselves, even if they are not. But if you always consider the situation from the point of view of yourself as a victim, you will never develop.
Sometimes you need to take a step back, look at yourself and try to determine your contribution to the relationship. Do you have a pattern, how do you behave the same way in all respects? Could you improve yourself to prevent old mistakes in future relationships?
You need to be strong to admit that it may be your fault. To leave, even when you love a person more than anything else, but you need to change, improve yourself and prevent further toxic effects on your relationship.Sometimes it’s noble to get away from someone you love to work on yourself.
The fact that you love a person is not a sufficient reason to stay with him and make his life miserable. Sometimes your love is not measured by your presence, but rather by your absence.