Sometimes it seems that you just chose the wrong time. But because of their strong feelings, many still decide to stay and wait, hoping that the right time will come soon. But then months pass, and maybe even years, and you understand that nothing changes.
Therefore, the best thing is to end this at the very beginning. Decide to meet only those people who want and can build the relationships that you want, and do it today, and not after six months, or when the day comes to X.
Therefore, if you are with a person who is not ready to dedicate himself completely to you, here are some tips for you:
1. Evaluate the facts.Objectively. Is the light visible at the end of the tunnel? Do you want to wait? Did you talk about what will happen when it is ready, and specifically when it will happen?
Just see if you get what you want when it’s ready. Maybe you are waiting for what you do not need.
2. Recognize your feelings. Has this happened to you before and how often? Why do you want to sacrifice yourself for the sake of this relationship? Or do you think that you will not find anything better?
Every minute you spend in a dead relationship is a minute that you will not get back, and that you could spend in a real relationship or at least for your own good. Take action to achieve what you want, or accept that you are not very much and want to change something.
3. Act.Decide what you need to do and do it. If you decide to stay - stay, but do not complain. If you decide to leave - leave and do not turn around. Be honest about what you want and why.
It is you who must decide what you want or do not want in your relationship, and what they should be. You build your happiness, and if something does not work out - do not blame others.