This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

Building a family and raising children is difficult, requiring a lot of work and efficiency from both partners. So you can imagine the state of one of the parents when the other is just sitting with folded arms. Australian blogger and mother of four children, Constance Hall, wrote her angry post about Facebook and he became viral. Thousands of women saw this as a situation in their family.

“Recently, complaining to friends that I was doing absolutely everything in my house, someone told me:“ If you want help, just be more specific ... ask about it. People need lists of tasks, they cannot read minds. ”

So I tried ... to ask ... more specifically ...

"Can you take out the trash?"

"Can get up with the kids?" I'm just a little tired, doing it myself the last 329 years. ”

"Can you feed the dog?" I have already loaded laundry three times, cooked dinner, collected children’s textbooks, put them in the yard ... ”.

And yes, she was right ... everything began to be done.

But I was exhausted, doing all my own and still remembering what to ask for, constantly nagging ..

And you know what happened at that moment when I stopped asking ...?

NOTHING.

Again.

And so I came to the conclusion that this is not our job - to ask for help, this is not my job - to write lists of tasks ...We already have enough work and it is not part of it to teach someone how to take into account me and what I am doing.

Just do it.

Just think about each other, which requires maintaining the house in good condition. Does one of you work while the other is scratching his heels?

One of you hang out with friends, while the other does not have time to prepare you a snack?

Only one of you pulls the whole load?

Because when you stop “sawing”, when you stop asking, when there is no longer a list of tasks ...

It remains only a silent rejection. And this, my friends, is a cancer relationship ...

No one should teach you to think about others. It's your job.

Just finally wash the dishes, even if you are not asked to, damn it. ”


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  • This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral

    This mother of many children is tired that men do not help around the house, and her post has become viral