You're looking for the man of your dreams ... tall, dark-haired and stylish, right?
So what about you?
Do you want to be yourself next to everyone, even the “man of your dreams”? Or are you destroying your future relationship, already pretending to be someone else that you are not?
In truth, the worst mistake a woman can make in trying to find a man for herself is to lie about what she really is and pretend to be different. It may be of the best intentions - to please him: every girl thinks she knows what she should be for that.
You think that if you love everything that he loves (although you hate football and dogs), then he will love you too, right? Not.
Pretending to be someone else, you only ruin your relationship. After all, in fact, you're lying to your man. How to stop it, not worrying about how like the opposite sex?
1. Be yourself.
You are so alone. You have no replacement in this world. So why change yourself to the one that you are not?
And in search of a partner, be yourself.If he doesn't like you like this, don't worry. Keep living your life. Be honest about what you want and what you want from a man. And you will find someone who loves you for all your flaws and merits.
2. Be where you want to find a man.
Honestly tell yourself what kind of partner you are looking for. And physical characteristics should never prevail over personal ones.
When you notice the right person, find out about his interests, about how he is, when no one sees. Watch him when he gets angry, how he reacts to certain situations, how he manages his money.
And feel that you feel in these moments, how do you feel about such his behavior. Honestly decide for yourself from the very beginning, it suits you or not.
3. Liars never win.
Lying about yourself and what you like can help at first. You can really get a beloved man, but in the end the truth will come out. You can not pretend and be happy for a long time.
Yes, and truly your man can be found only when you remain yourself.
4. Do not change until you yourself want to change.
Never change for someone to please someone.These changes will not bring satisfaction to anyone.
Men come and go. And you stay here. Do not change under each. Wait for the one who loves you real.