Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

It's been a while since you broke up. Of course, it was not an easy decision for you. But you knew that you had to do it for your well-being. You knew you had to break up with him in order to protect yourself. And maybe now you are ready for a new relationship. But suddenly your ex decided to return to your life again - and with all his cockroaches.

Many women found themselves in a similar situation. You can part with an emotional manipulator after a long relationship. You can catch him treason. Or maybe he beat you. Maybe you understood that he used you for money. Whatever it was, you decided to end it. You decided to burn the bridges. You knew that you had gone through a lot of pain, and what you did right after you left. And you understand that now you feel better. You realized that the old wounds began to heal.
But then the day comes when he unexpectedly returns.Maybe you ran into him on the way to work. Maybe you were in the same line for coffee. Maybe you met in the subway.Anyway, he reappeared in your life, and you are shocked. And he also tells you what you didn’t want and didn’t expect to hear. He says he has not forgotten you and wants to return everything. He says he has changed. He's calling you on a date.

Like the universe itself is testing you. Like fate wants to test you. There are so many questions in your head that you do not know the answer to. And you do not know what decision to take. Is it worth giving him a chance? Or is it better to leave?

The bottom line is when the past returns, just don't answer. You will not learn anything new. And that's why:

1. There was a reason why you initially let this person go.

And probably it is still relevant. There are more reasons to ignore your ex than reasons to give him a second chance. Find joy and meaning in your life. There is no reason to return to a terrible situation.

2. Most likely he has not changed.

Where is the proof?

3. He has already destroyed your confidence in the past.

He already deceived you once, why give him another opportunity to do this?

4. Maybe you just lonely.

Perhaps you are thinking about giving him a chance, just because you are alone now and you are lonely. But refrain. You can find happiness yourself.You do not need to be with him to feel happy.

5. He never wanted to be only with you.

If he wanted, he would not let you go the first time.

6. True love is. You just have to be patient.

Maybe you just desperately want to love. But you cannot allow despair to hinder your real happiness. Just believe that you will find your person only if you do not cling to someone you are not destined to be with.

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  • Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

    Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

    Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

    Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

    Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

    Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

    Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

    Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

    Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

    Sometimes the universe sends you a former to check how old you are

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