People are obsessed with finding their soul mate. And many people find love, but do not know how to preserve it and carry it through the years. Here are the psychological moments that experts note that they feel couples who truly love.
1. Romantic feelings.
We all know it. This is a state of love. When you do not want to eat, work, or sleep, but just think about this person and be with him. Solid butterflies in the stomach and the power to turn the whole world.
2. Desire for absolute merger.
It is a passion, a desire for a complete fusion of bodies, mind and souls. We want a person entirely, to dissolve in it.
3. Together against the whole world.
We no longer feel alone. Now we are part of a couple. We feel the power of two and joy. Now we are two - the center of the universe.
4. Desire to create.
Evolutionary is the desire to create children, in the modern world it is also an inspiration to create, create new art, music, creations.
Yes, and in true love without it anywhere.When the romantic period passes, we begin to see reality. But the difference is that in true love, disappointment does not mean the end of a relationship.
In fact, it is the basis of true love. We begin to understand that now everything is real, and we can learn from each other and get to know each other again.
7. We will know ourselves.
We get our soul mate and love and begin to understand something in ourselves. For example, that a relationship is not a healing for our soul, and we need to solve our psychological problems by ourselves. That a relationship is not the meaning of all life, and we need to develop as a person.
8. Acceptance of diseases.
Diseases and difficulties are great teachers who teach us a lot in relationships.
9. Let go of fears.
All miseries and illnesses are based on fear. We are afraid of losing what we have, or not getting what we need. We always have two options: feed your fear or feed love? What you feed, it will grow more.
10. Understand that true love is a journey, not a journey to a destination.
This is what we create every day. And this is the most difficult thing in our life, and the simplest at the same time. To love is the highest school of life.Admission is free, but this trip will cost you all that you have.