Report. Second births.
Under the code name -"no matter what - pull yourself together !!!" :)
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8-00- alarm clock - I lie to myself - too lazy for me to wash a jar or not too lazy to take an analysis for LCD. The plans were to go to the LCD to add the remaining AIDS and syphilis tests to the exchange office, and to make Max flurography - because there is still no. Absolutely do not want to stay without it at birth. Too lazy to get up.
8-15- without a click, just in the head a bang and a fountain - a clear understanding of the fact that everyone was jumping. Give birth today. I managed to run to the toilet. The sofa is dry. I doubted the first time, then I already understood everything - as if the waters were moving away. Light pink - everything is okay - scary. I sat thinking in the toilet and in the bathroom - there are pools everywhere behind me :)
8-20- Max wakes up - with the words: we give birth ....
8-30-8-45- collect Lisa in the garden, calmly weave. We decide what to do next - I can not believe in the reality of what is happening.
9-00- Max leaves for fluorography and at the same time for my analyzes.
There in the LCD with a fright they wrote out a second exchange.:) The doctor on my phone says - today to be in the hospital - I swear to him solemnly. In the internet I read terrible numbers about 6 hours, 12 hours and an encouraging figure about 48 under hospital supervision.
11-00- we make the decision to go the same to Zhytomyr - I call there, they invite to go, write down our surnames. It seems everything is ok. I try to collect paper bags to the hospital - it does not work, thoughts run in different directions. I take myself in hand - it was the first, but not the last time. I am writing a list. I called a friend who was on an excursion at the hospital - I find out what is needed. I write down the missing list.
12-00we are leaving, in DC - because even there are no diapers :), we buy almost everything - I don’t take only vicril, in the faint hope that I’ll not break.
12-30- we remember that tomorrow it is necessary to hand in a report - the last day. Max calls the accounting department, agrees, but you need to come to work. Another half an hour, I am already starting to get nervous, after all, 130 km from Zhytomyr.
12-42- VUH - left.
Fights began. Not that I am happy - but I write it down.
12-42, 12-52, 12-58, 13-11 - we are going, in 10 minutes
13-49, 13-54, 13-59 - we are going, the interval is 5 minutes
A sharp braking, some kind of wagon did not yield, and we dropped at a decent speed. 13-59, 14-01 - th - two minutes!
Then they calmed down a bit - 3-4 minutes each.We call our friend in Zhytomyr - he is like a navigator (turning right, turning left, a traffic light) leads directly to the maternity hospital.
15-00- arrival, contractions every 3 min
15-40- registration, inspection - 3 cm of disclosure. They are trying to dilute to the ward for 3000 UAH, although in the morning we were told by the deputy head doctor that there were enough wards for 2000. I really do not like it, in the end, we still fall into the desired chamber. Rather in rodblok. We like it very much, even the bathroom is there :)
Balls, ladder Swedish, high chair for delivery vertically, toilet, bed-transformer, lamp for a newborn, scales, bedside tables. Himself rodzal large enough.
16-00We meet with the doctor and midwife. The doctor was like nothing, the midwife liked it.
There are no fights: (we naguli - at 16-19 the first inspection. HORROR !!! they put their hands on my elbows - and they started to do something. It hurts me terribly - well, and I understand that they blow a bubble! NOTHING about it I didn’t say. I just curled up with her hands - holding her hands strongly with my legs. The doctor even asked me to give her a hand - like, I’m still working all the shift. But I was not amused. The baby's heart beat died - 162 ..... I understood something - then I discussed everything further with me, in principle there was very nothing.
Since I accurately remembered about 6 hours, 12 hours, then after the inspection, in which I still had the shells, scratched the child’s head :( I only noticed this at home today .... So after the inspection and 2 cm installed (and 8 hours of the dry period - I really didn’t tell them the exact number of the beginning of the wastewater - I said 3 hours later), I began to exercise fights, and it was very active.
Contractions went - once every 5 minutes, but lasting for 1 minute, that is, effective. At 17-41 the next inspection - and already 5 cm - is excellent, we move on :)
18-11, 18-15, 18-19 - after 4 minutes - I rejoice at every fight and breathe - I go - there are fights like that I don’t even want to breathe or shift anything - that is, everything is tolerable in one breath.
I walk, crouch, hang on the wall.
Inspection in20-00- besides my doctor, another one came, she stuck her hand in me and started communicating with my doctor on me as a piece of meat. What they say - where are you there groped 5 cm? God forbid there is 3. My hand is thrusting - like “giving a tooth”, 5 cm was in a fight.
And I must say - after each inspection, my fights disappeared. And I took myself in hand - speaking - it is necessary to give birth, throw everything aside and give birth! You yourself chose the hospital!
So - when this second doctor decided to put his hands in me for the third time - I said, everything will be enough, I don’t want to - we give birth and you bother me.Immediately I heard that normal labor activity would not interfere with anything - it either goes or not. Well, what can I tell you - I am an impressionable girl - she told doctors that women are different. And she almost burst into tears when they left - there was even a desire to pack up and leave: (Max stopped me - well, where? And then what?
I had to pull myself together again and it seemed like it went on. I was able to cling to the phrase of the doctor that my head sank - because in 2 hours and no progress I was very upset.
20-11, 20-15, 20-19 - barely a fight in 4-D min.
And before the inspection were already in 2 minutes .....
I breathe, I walk, in a fight, squatting to hold a Swedish wall.
Everything is so tolerant that I already doubt that the process is going on ..... I get upset ..... Max supports me - he writes time for contractions, offers to massage the back until I need - I go, I breathe in pain - he lets go.
20-23, 20-27, 20-29, 20-32, 20-36 - something began to stray with clear intervals of time .. And then as it covers - already flashed in my eyes, massage helps, the ball is also not bad.
The duration of the fight 2 min - th !!!
20-41, 20-46, 20-51 - for 2 minutes - sometimes the fight covers strongly - sometimes the term - I even walk on my feet.
20-55, 20-59 - covers not childishly, I lose count when breathing - says Max - 1,2,3,4 - inhale. 1,2,3,4.5,6 - exhale, inhale-exhale - again contractions of 2 minutes - mother !!!! and then begins to podtruzhivat me! AS??? but what was not 5 cm?
Max is running for the midwife ...
21-04- I can't walk between fights - I'm lying on the bed, falling somewhere, almost falling asleep.
The midwife came running - disclosing 7-8 cm, put my knees on the ball on the floor and showed Laks how to squeeze on the back, some points, but it really became easier to breathe the potuga - honestly breathed - to tear the neck a second time oh how not wanted to. 2 fights-attempts - I looked at something there with a lamp and put me on a high chair. He says - well, try to push - after I told the doctors that you frighten me with your examinations :) - everything was already affectionate with me :) well, or I was a clever girl :)
I try it at half strength - she asks - easier? you are tired? let's get stronger - I'm a little stronger, I feel that he passes - and the midwife - stop-stop and let's call the doctors. Max was seated behind his back, and I leaned forward a bit. The old stitches were very painful, the inferno was terrible. But the midwife - thanks to her, at some point I said stop-stop and lift my legs - and here she lamented - I can't stand - and my fight-doctor and Max on the other side pulled my legs higher - I really felt betterI couldn’t try to straighten out - she straightened everything, everything stretched out - they waited until everything became as it should be. The next struggle with the attempt - the head, the shoulders, everything else has slipped.
21-30!!!!!!!!!! Fuhhhh ...... baby right on my stomach, covered with a warm diaper, a blanket, we are in awe :)
The midwife for the scissors - the max caught her - the umbilical cord was waited while she was pulsating, cut. I refused from the active third period of labor beforehand - I climbed onto the bed - they raised my back. I sit, enjoy the moment - wait for the placenta - the doctor is not happy with the fact that you have to wait. It scares me that 30 minutes is anesthesia and manual separation. I no longer intervene and do not remind her that the piece of paper was written before 2 o'clock - :))) my placenta was shot in 10-15 minutes. All - all gone. We are three. And before leaving the doctor so - oh - and who was born with us? :) I did not care so much that I did not even look :), and Maksik in the field had no doubt. :))))))
Well, my little sparrow, squeaking, lies on my belly - I'm absolutely happy, Max too. We were left alone, we muted the light and enjoyed the moment.
Only a midwife came to us, very carefully watching the uterus and the amount of blood loss.
Only two hours came to make measurements. She measured her height on me, took the weight back - but Max carried it and weighed it there, they also measured the volume of my head - that's all.
Further forgot about us. Or rather, they did not forget, but there was a lot of birth and the neonatologist was there. But we were in no hurry to go anywhere and had a wonderful time.
Since we chose a single chamber, we were transferred there from the rodblock. They did not give me a pass - although I could:) / The conditions are normal, the chamber is not very big, pleasant. Refrigerator, toilet and shower on the box, that is, on two such chambers, tulle on the windows, first floor, windows to the courtyard - a friend came to talk to us :) even showed him our little sparrow through the window - as in the best traditions :) really open . :)))))
Well, they put me on a gurney in the delivery unit - they were very surprised that at first I didn’t let the midwife put it on - I put it on myself :), then I didn’t let my sister carry it while I was on the gurney. Received the definition of a cheerful mommy :) They brought us to the ward - and left alone - wooh !!! :)
Max called Vasya and they finally rushed to the store - from 8 am we only had kefir and half a liter of baked milk :) well, and water came to two with food! ate with him. And this is where the fun began :).Well, as I was naked - so naked and remained - only covered with a blanket and diaper - the jim-jams passed, and I understand that something is wrong. We are soaked!
And on the wall in the most prominent place hangs a thermometer - +28 !!!! in the rodblock +25 - but he was more breathing than it was. In general, the window was opened - but metal-plastic doors, the air is not strong from the window - rather, it goes - but the batteries under the window interrupted all this ... Until the morning I struggled - because my child began to grunt and could not sleep - I also could not sleep because there was nothing to breathe .... Maksik was half asleep on the floor on the rug and sleeping in the sleeping bag.
I rushed with towels - to increase the humidity and shifted from the window to the other side - well, so as not to blow on a person. Then I was cut down for an hour, and then I woke up from emotions and could not sleep anymore. :) I looked at the person, admired him, at Max, lying below.
About half of the seventh did not hold back and called Mom - chatted with her :). And then without knocking, the same uncle rushes in, and he checked me for adequacy - and OOO, right here, right there, at your station - Max is sleeping on the floor.
I told him - what are you yelling?
He - I came to inspect the child
I am a child who sleeps and does not need to wake him up (after giving birth, I could not fall asleep, then I fell asleep soundly at five o'clock, and now I’ll wake him up — as soon as I run)
he - they always sleep
I (with metal in my voice and a sweet smile) - the child is asleep, it is not necessary to examine him, if I need you, I will call you
He had to leave not completely empty ...
And then they plied - to take out the garbage, to wash it, to measure the temperature - it was strange to me, the child, that God pardoned my father, I had a blood test, a midwife on duty, the main midwife. Total - by 10 o'clock, a persistent desire ripens to bring down - even through a window ..... the benefit of the first floor. It’s not even about the fact that they broke in - no, the majority of them did behave decently, they knocked and waited until we allowed to enter. The number of visitors greatly strained, the desire to close the windows, lectures of various kinds to us, well, the most important thing was the rising sun - and this means that soon there will be nothing to breathe .... and so hardly reached overheating the child at night - in the afternoon I think definitely not given.
Making plans for departure before the roundabout decided to wait. Everything is OK (I must say that the detour was purely nominal) and we almost started the hostilities, as it dawned on me that we should call Tanya - and then she calls :))))) and puts forward a sensible idea - go and cry - maybe so let go. In the end, we cried that we had a force majeure with an older child, and that’s all - we must go.I wrote 5 receipts that I have no complaints. Gusala there on the floors :) I was caught a couple of times - you just gave birth, do not run - I gave them yesterday, I gave birth, and my eyes are burning - HOME !!! :)
At 12-00 we were already in the car :), and moved home :).