Are you no longer attracted to bachelor life? Are you finally ready to find a person to build a serious relationship with him?
Well, you know, autumn, winter is coming, the season of hugging and watching movies under a warm blanket, preferably with someone nearby.
In any case, if you have already decided and are going to have a first date, then it is important to know the following 3 factors in order not to waste romantic time in vain. If this happens, then do not plan a second date.
1. If you constantly glance at the clock, how much time has passed, it means it's time to leave.
I had such that I wrote to a friend so that she urgently called me and gave me a reason to leave this date. I made a surprised and even shocked face in response to the allegedly terrible thing that happened to my friend, waved goodbye to him and ran away hastily.
I did it twice. One strangely flirted with me, the other was very boring. They were not bad guys, but I was not comfortable. The first date should be exciting when people get to know each other, and not test themselves for stamina.
2. If only one of you speaks for the most part.
I like to talk a lot, and this is a good sign: it means that a person arouses my interest and trust, and I want to open up to him.
But I also want to see that a person wants to open up before me. Otherwise, it will be like an interview when I try to get something out of it.
At the same time, if he speaks all the time and does not allow you to say a word, then he is too fixated on himself and is not interested in you.
3. If you can say from the first date that you want different things.
At the first meeting it is quite possible to understand what a person wants. Maybe he is already looking for a wife to have children, and you just finished a long relationship and now you just want to relax, or vice versa.
If you understand that your intentions do not coincide, it is better to disperse immediately, so as not to complicate anything.