So, how do you know that in bed you are, to put it mildly, not very, and you should work on your skills? Here are some signs that will help you identify your mistakes and correct them:
If you notice that you are focusing only on what you like in bed with YOU, without focusing on the desires of your partner, you need to reconsider your approach to sex. Exciting partner can be very exciting, the main thing is not to forget - you are not alone in the intimate process.
Not everyone wants to go through a sex marathon. Sometimes fast sex can be piquant, but not every time! Do not forget about the prelude - it will help prepare for the grand finale
Orgasm is an important component of sex, but setting it as a goal can turn against you. There are many reasons why a person cannot feel the peak of pleasure - taking specific medications, alcohol, fatigue or stress. Pressure on a partner for orgasm will make him feel ill at ease.
Yes, it’s not only what you can give to your partner, but also what you don’t ask him about. If you pretend to enjoy sex, but don't really get what you want, you let your partner down. He would be disappointed and upset if he caught you lying. Being a good lover also means being honest with your chosen one and with yourself.
If, after sex, there is no post-clique and pleasant chatter, and only awkwardness is felt, then something probably went wrong. After sex, you should feel an extreme degree of pleasure and relaxation. And if this is not the case, ask your partner whether everything is in order and what you can do to change the situation.
Sex is not a beautiful scene from the movie. Wonderful and awkward moments happen during it, and if you are not able to perceive them with humor, then you will have such a sex partner. Think about how to relax and turn these situations into a joke.
All the above problems can be eliminated by communicating with each other. If you do not talk about sex, it will be difficult to do.You need to frankly talk about what you like and what is not. Make sure that you regularly communicate with your chosen one.