In films, when lovers are ideally compatible, they end one after the other sentences, communicate with looks. But is that all?
Of course not. Being compatible with someone is a more complex concept than shown in the movie. It is more than loving the same food, having common interests and having similar preferences in sex. This strange combination of things that come together is just perfect, even when you are not aware of it.
So what are the signs? The main thing - do not complicate. Because compatibility is usually in the details. This is something that already works perfectly, even when you don’t think about it.
1. He does not try to change you (and you're not trying to change it).
True compatibility is to love someone and not want to change it. To value and love each side of a person, not trying to translate it into someone else. Yes, maybe he plays too much video games, or maybe she cooks terribly. But these are the little things that make you be touched by this person. If you constantly convince yourself that he / she will change and everything will be better, you are probably not compatible.
2You can easily compromise.
The best couples know how to compromise. When you build a life together, you as a couple have to solve a lot of questions. Without the ability to compromise will be very difficult. It is important to know when to make concessions. If your partner is never ready to meet you, this is a bad sign.
3. You know each other’s complexes and are working on them.
Everyone has their own complexes, experiences, fears ... And there is nothing worse when your loved one does not understand this, does not respect you and does not try to help you cope with it. When you are truly compatible, a person tries to do everything so that these complexes are not between you.
4. He is a team player.
Relationships include two people who must act as a team. You, as a couple, must cope with all that life brings to you. Days are both good and bad, but the real compatibility is to know how to experience both. Without teamwork it will be difficult.
5. You can quarrel.
Contrary to popular belief, even perfectly compatible pairs are arguing. The difference is that compatible couples know how to quarrel.They discuss the problem, seek a compromise and move on. They do not shout, do not insult each other, do not resort to violence. They are looking for a solution.
6. You do not doubt the love of each other.
You love each other without question. You love him and know that he loves you. Even if it is not voiced, you do not doubt it. Thanks to this, your relations are stable, confident and are a safe haven for you. True compatibility is to love each other without question every day of the week.
Compatibility is not a perfect relationship. It is to know another person so well and to love him so purely, to be with him no matter what.