When you are in love, it's easy to forget about yourself - sometimes to the extent that we start to change too much for the sake of your loved one. Although compromise is important for relationships, you should not feel the need to change if your love is true. The whole point is to find a person who accepts you and loves them for who you are. And there are things that we should not change in any way.
1. Basic values and beliefs.
This is what you grow up with, grow up with, live with. Changing your values is putting the whole system of your beliefs at risk. You should never compromise what you believe. If you want to be accepted and loved, changing your values is not the way to achieve this. Relationships imply that you will be honest and open with your partner, and that he will accept you like that.
Our shortcomings make us what we are. Ideal people are unreal, and real people are not perfect. Weaknesses complement us, and by changing them, we lose a part of ourselves.A person is worth your time and energy only if he can love everything in you, including your weaknesses.
3. Body and appearance.
If you yourself want to change your body and appearance, your right. But you don't have to do this for anyone. We all want to be in perfect shape, but not at the cost of loving relationships. If someone is so superficial that he wants you to look a certain way, it shows that he is interested in just that.
4. Hobbies and goals.
Everyone has a passion for something. Relationships should not change your priorities. Of course, you must take into account the interests of the partner, but do not forget about their own. We all set goals in life, and nothing should stop us from achieving them. In an ideal relationship, your partner should support your hobbies.
5. Relationship with others.
Everyone has close relationships with friends and family, and having a partner should not affect this. You do not have to sacrifice someone for the sake of a loved one. You do not have to choose between them. You must learn to appreciate the people who make you and your partner happy.