4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

Some people like the idea of ​​love so much that they become fearless in a relationship. Even after their hearts are broken, they are able to gather them and try them again, and now they are in love with someone again.
For the rest of us, finding new relationships is not easy. Yes, maybe we can easily meet someone who is interesting to us, which can smoothly turn into a relationship. But after a few weeks or even months, we begin to think “Our relationship must develop,” but this is not the case. And we fill our heads with the question “What is happening between us?”. As for someone who had been in an “almost serious relationship” many times, I finally understood why my relationship ended before they could start.

1. You doubt when a person tells you about his feelings.

When you have feelings for someone, and these feelings are mutual, you are on the 7th from happiness. His words are like music to your ears, and his actions, with which he shows his feelings, make you smile. But over time it seems to you that this music becomes quieter, and the smile is smaller. You are increasingly thinking whether he still feels it all to you.

Instead of enjoying time together, you become demanding. You constantly appreciate how he feels about you. Instead of being fun and loving, you become in control and in need. And this will only scare him.

2. You convince yourself that you do not want a serious relationship.

Most of us think so. Although most likely we are just trying to hedge in case nothing happens. We tell ourselves that we just want to have fun, kill time, avoid loneliness. But what happens when we actually meet someone with whom we can imagine our future? We continue to insist on their own. And this is fraught with bad consequences.

Yes, it’s scary to open up to another person. Scary to hear the failure. But otherwise we will be stuck forever in “just entertainment.”

3. You tell the whole world about your "relationship".

When you start to meet someone new, you are overwhelmed with emotions, and if you are already actively sitting in social networks, then you definitely really want to share with all the news from your personal life, or at least hint at it.

But there is a line that should not be crossed. The more you talk about your personal life with friends, colleagues, hairdresser, and so on, the more uninvited advice and opinions you will receive, and this will cloud your judgment.Instead of making your decision, you seek advice and approval from others, you begin to lose confidence in your actions.

In most cases, it is disrespectful to who you meet. It is unlikely that he wants you to tell all your friends and acquaintances about him, be it something good or bad.

4. You think that you are already in a serious relationship, although you have not discussed it.

I once met a guy whom I saw so often that I practically lived in his house, we constantly traveled together, I accompanied him to various events, he even introduced me to close friends and family. For me, this was the typical behavior of a guy in a relationship. After all, the same act pairs, right?

I automatically decided that we are officially together. But in fact, they still do it ... just friends.

And many make a similar mistake. They believe they are in a relationship, looking at the behavior of a person. They spend a lot of time and energy on him, expecting the same from him, but then he only moves away.

The only way to avoid such disappointment is to stop jumping over your head, and just sit down and discuss your relationship.

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  • 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

    4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

    4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

    4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

    4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

    4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

    4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

    4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

    4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

    4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start

    4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start 4 ways you kill your relationship even before they start